All the mean things you say about us are confirmed here!
My spouse and I - let's call him 'Ton' have been married 23 years and have known each other 29 years. We met while getting our master's degree in the mid-90's. We met as 'equals' -sort of. In those days, males were still marching around as though they were superior to females. Lots of sexism. More on that later. We are best friends. no joke.
So - when Ton started to bring me around his relatives in the 90's, the expectation was that I pretend to be a nice bitch. He asked me to pick up after him and be subservient in front of his parents and other relatives that were/are allergic to female empowerment. It was odious to me, but he assured me it was for my own protection. I wasn't sure what he thought would happen if they thought we were quasi-equal.
It doesn't matter. They were on to me. I was summed up (not by all, but by many) as an impoverished hillbilly who had Ton pussy whipped into submission. And so what if I was? So what??! You all should have delivered him some fine country club pussy if you didn't want me around.
I'm not sure where I am going with this except making my own blood boil when I am trying to be productive today.
I despise sexism and feel that Ton and I are being victimized by sexists. I HATE the storyline of 'strong', opinionated, driven, whatever - woman and her puss husband. There is a lack of respect for other ppls boundaries. For other peoples rights to feel what they feel and have their own opinions. It is the most fucking annoying thing ever. I have no beef (to my knowledge) with 80% +/- of these ppl. There are some rotten asshole apples in the bunch.
He's a puss and I'm a bitch. Fuck every one of you that says that mean ugly story line about us! Here's an idea - why don't you stop talking about yourself nonstop and ask a question about someone else's life. It is so infuriating to be assigned a role and then everyone sticks to it until fucking death. argh!!
more later - got to do some work...
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